Rather than writing down an open-ended list of resolutions on a sheet of notebook paper that will likely be crumbled at the bottom of my purse within a week, I like to take on challenges as they come. I think it is important to be constantly evolving as an individual. Change is good, but we can’t always predict certain changes in our lives. In fact, I think some of the best opportunities come from the most unforeseeable experiences.
I think too much thought can be put into bettering ourselves–why waste time thinking about what needs to happen and why not just do it? It’s easier said than done, and I am guilty of procrastination, too. I think there’s a misconception that setting goals equates to having drive, ambition, and dedication. While that sometimes can be true, I don’t think it is always true. I’m not a goal-oriented person, but that doesn’t mean I lack determination. I strive to reach my fullest potential in all types of situations. I don’t like the frustration that follows failing; instead, I aim to make improvements in my life on a short-term basis.
A major lesson that I’ve learned in recent years is that sometimes, no matter how much you plan, things go wrong. Live in the moment, but continue moving forward.
Do you think too much time is wasted talking about making changes rather than actually making those changes?
Hi Colleen. What a great post, you nailed it! After I read this I read it again…3 times. You are amazing and I love the way you see life. Why plan to the “N’th” degree when you can just live life and when life opens the door to excel you grasp it. Take the moment and run with it. After the greatness is over live life to the fullest again till the next opportunity. When things go wrong just think about the good things. Life is never a bowl of cherries, enjoy the sweet times and ignore the pits.
I LOVE your positive attitude.
Thanks
Brian
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Thank you for your kind words, Brian! I’m glad you could see where I was coming from with this post–I think people see the negative too frequently and fail to see the positive that is all around them.
P.S. As always, love the shoes!
YES!! I do think the talking wastes time versus just doing. I actually recently experienced a situation like that where I talked about it for over an hour and it took literally 2 minutes to do – and I feel better, obviously, after I actually did it.
I know exactly what you mean–I can spend so much time mulling over something when in reality, I always feel better once it’s complete.
Great post! I was excited when I read your post… knowing that someone feels the same–Great Attitude!!
P. From Toronto, Canada
Thank you! I’m glad that you were able to relate. It’s easy to feel inadequate at this time of year when others are setting [somewhat unrealistic] goals, but I think it’s important to remember to do what is best for you.
I agree with all that – constant change, no strict resolutions, search for and embrace opportunity as you make it – but if I don’t sit down and actually write my thoughts and goals (short or long term), chances are I won’t actually think about them as much. That’s why I like the “one word” concept. It’s easy enough to remember for 365 days and if you pick the right one, there are a lot of trickle effects it can have…. now I just have to figure out my word!
I love the one word concept! When there is too much to be accomplished, hardly anything gets done because it’s too overwhelming.